The Most Single Girl In The US of A


I must be the most single girl in the US of A at the moment! I come home, work on my arts and crafts, blog, and I feel content. When I am out walking I see couples galore, and a couple of times a week I feel the pangs of jealousy. Why am I jealous of theirs and thine? When I sit down to really think about it I am not jealous because I am the one of the most single people I know. I have come to enjoy time on my own, and not many people can say that. In my old age I will not be afraid of being alone because I have been so my entire life! Once someone tried to make me feel bad by telling me I would grow in a lonely old woman, but how wrong they are. I have God and my family, and in that I will never be alone. However, what many coupled people do not realize is that they are actually alone in relationships, and they use their status to find self-fulfillment.

I have learned I cannot help if someone is overly flakey or overly cruel towards me. One man dug and dug to have me say I was interested in him. When he finally got the words he craved he started throwing out hints he wanted to date, but then he turned out to just be playing the field. He did not like in the past when I brought up that I was talking to other men, but I quickly have learned he definitely talks to many other women. Boy, I guess this comes as no surprise from a guy that is bold enough to chase down a stranger and ask for her phone number.

To be honest I love my single-hood, and there are times when I do feel a bit of jealousy towards couples, but what am I jealous of? It is my life path to be single I believe, and in this economy I think that might be best anyway. Who would want to be going through a messy and expensive divorce with the current state of affairs?

So if you are jumping into the world of online dating I will just suggest that you be safe, but continue to have your fun. Just because I am a boring does not mean you have to be so!